What Women Want in a Man

In the subject of what women want, many focus on physical attributes, like strength, height, good features. But when all is said and done, we can’t just say that what women want is a strong man, or a tall one, because lots of women are not attracted to muscles, and lots of short men are notoriously attractive to women.

Now, all things being equal, women generally do prefer taller, handsome and well built men; but all things are not equal, and no two women are identical in their taste for men, taste that is shaped since childhood through circumstances as well as through inherited tendencies.

Fireworks with Females: The Ultimate Guide to What Women Want in a Man 

Also, qualities like strength can take many forms (strength of character, of conviction,
of beliefs…), having meaning and manifestation that goes beyond the physical, into
the emotional or psychological. 

The truth is that personality can overshadow any physical attribute imaginable. Yes,
even in the ‘size’ department, personality can make up for any ‘shortcomings’.

(We can hear quite a few men sighing with relief).

• What women want, really, has much more to do with personality than it
  has with physicality. 

If we had to pick only one attribute, one trait alone that makes a man attractive to a
woman, we would say, unequivocally, that:

• What women want is a man with self confidence. 

Self-confidence is a state of calm assuredness. One in which we’re not worried about
others’ opinions of us, or what could happen in the future or what happened in the past.
It is not over-confidence or arrogance, either. A confident man is not defensive or
aggressive, which are both signs of insecurity. And being confident does not mean
you always know everything (it’s ok to ask for directions!); it simply means you’re
comfortable in your own skin, no matter the circumstances.

Now, the truth is that most of us are not self-confident all the time or in every situation.
But it’s also true that most of us are self-confident sometimes and in some situations.
So,

• When you first meet a woman you like, make a point of planning a date
  around a place or activity you feel comfortable with. 

This way she gets to meet the self-confident side of you first. There will be plenty of time
for her to see other sides!

Speaking of planning,

• Women like it when a man has a plan of action. 

Having a plan of action is not the same as enforcing it (women still like a gentleman,
that dying breed). Planning means that you put some thought into your actions; that you
are purposeful and caring, and this goes hand in hand with another attractive personality
trait:

• What women want is a passionate man. 

Passion goes beyond the bedroom. You can be passionate about anything, even
sports. The problem with sports is that it lends itself to being stereotypical, which will
take away some of the allure that a woman will find in your being unique. So you have
to find a way of standing out and being yourself within your own passion.

Another winning trait:

• Women like men who make them laugh. 

Laugh stimulates the body and can be an aphrodisiac. But don’t be a clown, don’t
overdo it. If you try too hard it can end up being annoying.

Our last trait in this mini-compilation of what women want is one that men traditionally
have a bit of trouble with:

• Women are attracted to a man with a sensitive side, and who’s not afraid
  to show it. 

Some men may not like it, but it’s a fact. This is one of the top features that women
either want or complain that most men lack.

To end our exploration into what women want, we want to give you one last piece of
advice: if there’s one thing that most women have, for sure, is tremendous intuition
(some say the womb is like a second brain). As you work on strengthening some
of the above traits, playing into what women want, don’t pretend to be what you are
not. Don’t ‘act’ funny or ‘sensitive’ just because most women like it. These actions
have to be natural by-products of who you are, and they need to be as spontaneous
as possible. Be yourself at your best, and work on becoming a better person inside
and out.

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