How to Turn a Man
On
 Lots of people will joke and say that how
to turn a man on requires no
skill or effort on the woman’s part because men are already
‘on’ even
before the seduction process begins.
Well, there may be a bit of
truth to this—biologically men have usually
more of a sexual drive than women do. But this does not mean
that all
men are turned on by all women all the time. There are a lot of
things a woman can do to turn a man on, and lots of other
things to avoid turning
a man off!
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We are all different, and as the saying goes,
‘the devil is in the details’. So, as a woman, you need to find
out about the devilish details that turn your man on. You need
to be part detective and part journalist, depending on your
personality, his, and how long you’ve known each other.
Our first piece of advice in
how to turn a man on, then, is:
Talk to him; find out what turns him on about
you, or about women in general and
why. Look for clues and reactions to what you do or say.
A man may find it hard to
express his feelings, but he usually won’t have as much of a
problem when it comes
to communicating what turns him on.
Is it your hair, your smile?
Is it when you touch him flirtatiously, when you laugh at
one
of his jokes? Is it when you look at him with penetrating
eyes?
How about sexually? What
specifically drives him crazy? Does he like it when you’re
direct and aggressive, or when you act innocently? How does he
like to be touched,
softly, strongly? Does he like it when you touch
yourself?
You get the
point.
There is an added benefit to
talking about what turns him on. You may find out that
talking about how to turn a man on turns him on! Or that it
doesn’t. These two possibilities
in and of itself will provide you with clues about his
personality and his preferences when it comes to
sex.
Of course, if yours is a very
recent relationship (a few dates), you may have to hold off
on bombarding him with these type of questions, and instead be
more subtle, more of a detective. You will have to try
different things out and see what he reacts positively to,
and what he’s indifferent to or turned off by. Don’t be afraid
to experiment, and while at
it, take the following tips as general guidelines on how
to turn a man on.
In our article How to Turn
a Woman On, we mentioned that one of the
main things
women are looking for in a man is self-confidence, a calm sense
of self assurance
and being comfortable in one’s own skin. Self confidence also
plays an important part
for women in how to turn a man on. A man will be turned on by a
woman who likes
and respects herself. Not in a vain, 'ice-queen' way, but in
being Ok with who she is.
Being independent, not needy or clingy, and being relaxed are
ways to show your
confidence.
Show interest in him. It is a
false assumption that indifference is attractive to men.
Men
usually are turned on when the woman in front of him is paying
attention to him, whether
it is to his words or to something about him. Men love to be
heroes! They are turned on by acknowledgement and credit. So,
show him he’s special.
- Look
good, dress nicely for him.. but don’t overdo
it.
Men are turned on, for the most part, by you
being natural. Too much make-up, too much
hair-doing, too much time dolling up, may turn him
off.
- Be
in a good mood! Have a good attitude, have a sense of
humor.
This is one major tip in how
to turn a man on. Men do not like going out with someone
who’d rather be somewhere else, or who’s too high maintenance
and makes him feel
he's not good enough to give her a good time.
And one more tip.
- If
you are the talkative type, make a point of listening
too!
Listening means mainly, paying
attention. Even if he isn’t the talkative type, don’t feel
you have to fill any gap in the conversation by talking. Most
men find this a big turn-off. If
he doesn’t spontaneously talk a lot, being a good listener
can mean finding out what
interests him, asking him questions, and listening to the
answers.
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