General Advice On
Dating: How Does It Apply...
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Since not everyone finds the same things attractive or are impressed by the same traits, general dating tips
and advice give you a good base to stand on, but you
will have to make choices and adapt the tips to your
circumstances and to those of the person you are going
on a date with.
How do you adapt general
advice on dating to fit your own circumstances? By learning
the specifics of your personal situation. So, the first piece
of advice we will give you for
dating, is:
- Pay attention to your date.
We usually tend to focus more on ourselves at
the beginning of dating, whether it is
due to being nervous or worried about being liked. However, if
we practice focusing on
our date a bit more, a couple of positive things will
happen:
1) You will learn faster how compatible you are with your date, allowing
y ou to tweak some of your behavior to fit the situation; and,2) You will end up giving a better impression than if you're overly focused
on yourself.
This doesn't mean you have to
disregard what you want. Instead, it means that you
should be learning about what he or she likes and what his or
her reactions are to
different things.
Unless you're going on a date
without anything else in mind other than having a good
time, dating is a rehearsal
of a possible relationship. You're trying each other out,
assessing how you feel and how your date feels. Some of the
things you should
focus on:
- Is there chemistry?
- Is there physical attraction?
- Is there attraction beyond the physical?
- How well do you 'read' each other?
- Do you enjoy having a conversation with your date?
- Do you both have a similar sense of humor?
- How about similar tastes?
- What can be shared?
- What are some the differences between you?
- Are these differences
going to add spice to the relationship, or
potentially
become irreconcilable?
Another aspect of focusing on
your date is how you treat him or her (and how he or
she treats you back!)
- Be kind with your date.
If you are a man, be a
gentleman. If you're a woman, show kindness and respect
towards
him. Showing kindness is a sign
of confidence.
But don't take it to an extreme, or it could backfire. If you're a man, don't be so gentlemanly that you come off solicitous or too eager. A lot of women are turned off by this. The same if you're a woman. Be kind but without becoming too clingy, or losing respect for yourself.
We hope that our dating advice
has in some way enhanced your understanding of the
dating process. Our last tip is that
you keep all
of our advice in mind, but don't
obsess on it. When all is said and done, you also need to be
having fun!
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